Psalm 127:3-4 (ESV)--"Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one's youth."
1. A Biblical sense of urgency.
This trait would be the opposite of complacency or laziness. I want my boys to have a God-centered focus on the right opportunities and a strong desire to pursue them to completion. I want them to take initiative and risks for the development of their faith and the furtherance of God's Kingdom.
2. Wise Decision-Maker.
The opposite of this would be a foolish, careless decision-maker. I want my boys to make careful, God honoring choices. I want them to consider their past experiences, the present circumstances, and their future hopes, dreams, goals, and desires and pause before making a decision and ask: "Is this a wise thing for me to do?"
3. Christ-like Character.
I want to train my boys to be men of high character. This would mean that they are faithful and reliable, and not quick to compromise. It means that they are self-disciplined and not indifferent toward sin. They are vigilant in their desire to crucify sin in their lives. In addition to killing personal sin, they must learn to serve others in the Christ-like manner, which is selflessly and sacrificially.
4. Desire to Build Unity.
I want to teach my boys to recognize and buy in to a vision that is bigger than they are. This will require humility and the crushing of pride.
5. Courage to Connect.
This trait is about relationship development. First, and most important, is a intimate connection with their heavenly Father. Second, is the connection with key fellow believers that will encourage them and hold them accountable during their spiritual journey. Finally, is the connection with those who do not know their God. This meets Christ's commission on their lives and His expectation that they be both the salt and light in the world around them.
6. Heavenly Perspective.
A skewed perspective will result in fear. I do not want my boys to be paralyzed by problems. I want them to know and trust the goodness of a big God who is there and able to do all things. I want my boys to have a Godly view of what could be and should be even in the midst of personal difficulties.
7. A Will to Finish.
I desire to instill in my boys a high need for closure. I want them to refuse to be quitters just because circumstances prove difficult. I want that they would preserve and press on to the end just like their savior Jesus Christ did.
Yes, time is short and parenting is a privilege. Let us not waste a moment or an opportunity. Parents: MODEL WHAT MATTERS!!!
Happy Birthday Harrison!
